Let her go..

Let her go and if she loves you she will come back .. if she don't , getup and make a bright future for yourself.. Don't waste your time for some you don't bother for you ..

Thank you God..

Sitting in a silent room in Thailand, I can hear my heartbeat saying numerous things to me. The year 2012 was not a good year for me. I saw my father in two of the worst situation. He got an heart attack in June followed by a stomach cancer in October. I salute my dad for standing strong and sailing in the winds of distress. All thanks to almighty who did all good to us and now he is recovering with his all strong will power It was difficult or rather extremely painful to see your building block in such situation. I would have never imagined that anything would ever happen to my superhero. I am extremely thankful to God for doing favors to us. I pray to him for his fastest recovery..Love you Pappa

Confused!!!

When the wrong people walk out of your life that just makes room for the right ones but How important is to walk out of somebody's life for their benefit ?

Get Well Soon..Friend

Recently one of my close friend undergone shoulder dislocation surgery. The whole event helped me to learn several aspects of human life and my social responsibilities. Being a doctor's daughter hospital is always another place for me. I mean its not frightening place for me. OT and hospital wards all are just familiar words and things for me. I don’t feel awkward dealing with the hospital staff. But I had never been to this situation.

 I met this guy in my company and we worked for same project for almost a year. Because of same interest and like thinking we became good friends in short period of time. Fortunately his wife invited me for lunch one day and we also become good friends. It was just as good as the feeling when I met ruchita and we become friends. 

Coming back to the main topic. The operation was done by a specialist of very renowned Hospital of India. My father only told us about the hospital. Although looking after the services and hospitality I still feel that my father’s govt hospital was much much better in all senses. He decided to stick with the decision of getting operated because of the brand name of the hospital. He undergoes shoulder arthroscopy surgery on 14th March. He was asked not to eat or drink anything after 12am. The proposed time was 12pm on 14th march which was delayed by 3.5 hrs and finally he went for the surgery at 3.30pm. The surgery took place for 1.5-2hrs. He was in his senses when I reached hospital after my office hours. I was asked to bring coconut water for him as doctor advised to have the first thing to drink. I bought 3 of them but the security didn’t allow me to take it inside the ward. So I transferred the coconut water in water bottle. I was getting angry but for the first time I realized that getting angry will only create a problem for him, so I decided to be polite and do my thing as my main aim was to take the coconut water inside.

I called his wife and asked were they were? She guided me to the OT. She was crying man. She told me that my best friend was crying after coming into senses coz of severe pain in neck. Thank god I didn’t saw that scenario. As he was crying, his wife and father were also crying. The only one person who stands still facing the situation was his mom. She is a strong woman who knows how to deal in the difficult situation. Hats off to her, she is really great who manage to deal with the situation and instead of crying for her son she found the solution. The sling was tightly tied to his neck after operation that after coming to his senses he suddenly started feeling neck pain and because of it he started crying. With his mother’s strong will and sense of presence he was relief from pain in no time. That was the time I really felt what a mother and son shares. How a 34 yr man was crying in front of his mother and his mother she knows what he wants. Mothers are the world’s greatest gift in everybody’s life. She very well knows the pain of children and at time she gets so strong with the situation that instead of cursing the situation she fought with dual energy.

Finally it was my turn to meet him. This was the first time I entered the ICU. He was lying in front of me, trying to laugh but his face was full of grimace. I tried to be normal, we chatted for more then 10-15 min. He seems to be quite normal at that time. There was 3-4 more patient in that ICU. Everybody having there own stories. One of the patients was crying so much because of pain, that I was not able to stay in ICU.

I realized that doctor's life is so difficult, they have to deal with the human sufferings in there everyday life. I remembered my Pappa's word “I work with dedication, and when a person gets well because of me, I feel the great senses of satisfaction”. My dad is an anesthetist and he has served the humankind for more then 50 years. I feel great to be a doctor's daughter. I regret that I am not a doctor!!

After few hours he was shifted to the ward. Things seem to be normal but I can feel the tension in his family coz of his operation. At time of difficultly certainly one knows what a family is! What a family bounding is? The same can be seen in mother's love, Father's tension and his wife's caring.  I was happy that I also contributed a little to help his family at tough times. And that's the reason why friends are for.

The main thing I faced the next day was dealing with the insurance company and getting the discharge certificate. The doctor discharged him in morning around 9.30 pm and the formalities took 5 hours after that. He was finally discharged at 2.30 pm. The OT Voucher was missing which took 2 hours for the final settlement. After the number of requests it was finally sent to the billing department and then to the insurance company.

Anyway, All's well that ends well. Finally he is out from the hospital with a sling in his shoulder. He is recovering now. The anesthesia effect is no more and he is going through severe pain that he is not able to sleep.  Everything takes time, I hope within a day or two things will be normal and everything will be back to its place. I wish him all good health and energy to deal with this painful situation. Get well soon friend...Take care

When you mind and heart are on different paths..

I always thought as a human we all have same basic feelings and emotions. But the way we react to each situation is entirely different. Sometimes our mind and my heart both cannot go along for a similar situation and which results to a very serious confusion in Life. Many people face this in there life and they overcome it merely by balancing both. Recently I attended a 2hrs lecture session on stress management. And surprisingly I found that each person present in the room was somehow stressed including me. Though these stresses are part of life and can be overcome merely by giving time and understating thee priority at that point of time. Often we do few things in our life which we cherish throughout our life. At that point of time your mind and heart both are in same boat, complementing each other and looking for a single goal. That state of life is called as happiness. The second phase comes when your mind and heart doesn’t go along with each other. They simple contradict each other.

Have you ever noticed that if everything in your life is just normal still you mind is doing the thinking job? Yeah, many of us have noticed this because as eyes always see things, Nose always smell things, the same way mind always analyze things. The purpose of mind is to compare two situations with all its pros and cons and finally it’s always the heart who decides which paths to choose. If a constructive and positive path is chosen, the person is happy and has an aim to fulfill. Contradictory if the hear choose the wrong path the person instead f finding the solution ends up messing his own life. Mostly we spend time in diagnosis the particular situation/problem in our life instead of finding the solution to overcome it.

The only solution which I see is to get over the heart and mind when ever there is a negative situation. Sometime the things are not just mend for you. We should tamed our heart and ask our mind not to make any comparison in such cases and accept the situation in order to grow. We have to learn to choose between not every good and good situation. We have to ask every time that this situation goes along with me or not. You will immediately get the solution of your problem. You should practice this so that its becomes your habit.

Make the choice today. Just try it out. I think you’ll like it.

“The heart and the mind have the shortest distance but have the longest journey.”